Our persona's are complex and shape the way we behave. Understanding our own psychology is key to being able to shed the layers of the Onion such that we can have a high quality of discernment. As we know, discernment will allows us to take the next best step and as discussed before, that is the Goal. In the same way as Meditation is the medicine for the soul and exercise is medicine for our Wellbeing, Psychology is medicine for the ego.
Whereas people have mostly given up saying "...but you're not fat.." when you say that you go to the gym regularly, if you were to say that you regularly see a therapist, they will either say "...but your not crazy..." or just assume that you are crazy. It would be nice to think that there were no judgements or stigmas attached to the word Therapy, perhaps it will be achieved one day.
There is nothing better than finding yourself a therapist with that fits the approach you need and can guide you through a process of understanding your own Psychology. The important word there is Guide, it is important to know that you have all the answers already and you don't need to be poked, push and pulled until you realise what they are. A good therapist will be able to listen and respond in a non-judgemental way which will facilitate your process.
As time goes on, you will find that you will be able to describe all of your weekly activities in great detail, what they meant to you and how you responded to each of them. This is known as actualising/verbalising and although you might just say "...its just talking...", it is actually a valuable process of observing yourself, you thoughts and your actions and then being able to turn them into words that someone else can understand. That is a beginning to end process which means, it is real and authentic!